One of the biggest problems of the people, is that they see problems as problems, not as situations. A problem is actually a situation like any other to whom we give a negative meaning.
If we give a negative meaning to a situation we will have an emotional response so that sometimes if not always, everything it does is to complicate even more the situation. You may have noticed that when you face a difficult situation, you repeat in your mind things like “oh how hard it is … how will I get over … I have to start all over again … I’m very afraid, and so on. ” Continue reading