Category Archives: Communication

It is better before you find the problem in others, to try and identify it in you.

 

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There was once a couple, married for many years. They were middle-aged. One day the husband after a long debate in his mind, concluded that his wife can not hear so well as in the old days, so he  thought she would need a hearing aid. Not sure how to address the problem to his wife, he requested help from the family doctor with who he discussed the problem. The doctor advised him to make a simple test to his wife in order to make a clearer idea of the so called hearing problems.

– This is what you have to do, said the doctor. Stay to about 10 m away from your wife and as if you have a normal conversation speak to her, tell her something and see if she hears. If you do not receive any response then go to 8 m away, then to 5 m and so on until you get an answer.
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Why does Reverse psychology works?

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Reverse psychology is based on an emotional phenomenon called “reactance” that describes what in practice is that negative emotion that the mind generates when someone tries to convince us of something.
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How to Manage Negative Feedback

 

leading personalityWe all want to hear only praise and good things about our work and ourselves, isn’t it? Unfortunately, things are not always that beautifull and we wake up with some negative feedbacks from our bosses, colleagues, family or people we interact occasionally. The secret is knowing how to accept this feedback and transform it into something beneficial to you: opportunity and motivation to become better.

To learn how to accept negative feedback you have to follow a few simple steps:

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Principles of giving effective feedback

 

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Feedback is a tool used permanently, regardless of the field, both in personal life and professional life. We will learn together three types of feedback, how to use feedback to have results and how not to use it so that it does not turn into a boomerang that can turn against us.

Giving feedback in a professional manner leads to improved behavior of people with whom we are working with, will generate effective communication regardless of the position we give it (manager, employee, colleague, spouse, parent, business partner). Continue reading

It’s Not What You Know, But How Much You Know?

                                                                                      
 

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You have your own way of understanding the world around you. Your perception does not mean that this is reality. You can not always have all the information, just as you can not find on a map the smallest details. Your map is your representation of reality rather than reality itself.
You create this map by filtering information through the senses, language, beliefs and values, and through your experience.
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