Want to be a better you? Have you ever dreamed about being a better person but don’t know how to get started..? There is no Secret, if you want to make small daily changes you only have to make one step at a time.
“Change your thoughts and you change your world.” – Norman Vincent Peale
Following are a few ideas on how to find your balance in the everyday life:
» Give people more than they expect and do it nicely. Can you do this without having dozens of expectations?
» Do not belive all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
» When you say “I’m sorry”, look the person in the eye. It’s hard to say “sorry”, but to look people in the eyes and say it is harder. It’s hard to admit that in the end …you are not perfect and even you.. yes.. you.. You can be wrong.
» Never laugh of one’s dream. People who do not have dreams do not have enough. I say that people who have dreams, have everything. Because they know they have unlimited potential. As long as they have their dream …Someone said “You can kill the dreamer but you can not kill the dream” … is it true?
» Correct the misunderstandigs. Fight fair. Please do not insult! How wonderfull our lives would be if we been taught as children to fight fair. However, if one in three conflicts you manage to control yourself, it’s still better than nothing.
» Don’t judge people by their relatives. How can I be responsible for the actions of another person?
» Talk slowly but think quickly. If you can do both is great.
» When someone asks you a question you do not want to answer, smile and ask, “Why do you want to know?” You will surely find a proper answer. It is the best strategy.
» When you lose don’t forget that experience, if you had one. Because if you did not understood anything of that experience, it’s ok. It will be repeated untill you understand.
» Remember the three R’s: Respect for you! Respect for others! Responsability for your actions!
» When you realized that you made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. In theory it sounds good, but how many times do we do this?
» Love deeply and passionately. It might get you hurt but it’s the only way to live a full life. Show me a man without a passion and I will show you the one who is allready dead … but unofficially yet..
» When you say “I love you to” let it be so. Tell me if you respect yourself, tell me if you’re as careful for your soul as you care for your partner?
» Smile when you answer the phone. Who called you will feel it in your voice. When you smile you send a signal to your brain and you will speak and react in a more friendly way.
» Learn to use positive words to lift and empower yourself. In life, a big part of reaching your goals and getting what you want has to do with communication. Remember, words are more powerful than most people imagine. Positive words: fantastic, stupendous, fabulous, magnificent, good, great, the best, better than ever, incredible, unbelievable, tremendous, prodigious, marvelous, wonderful, brilliant, superb, excellent, remarkable, exceptional, phenomenal, extraordinary, amazing, awesome, brilliant, stunning, splendid, glorious, unmatched, untouchable, unbeatable, best ever, outstanding, first-class, joyful, delightful, committed, impressive, unlimited, abundant, astonishing, mind-blowing, sensational, spectacular, staggering, superb.